Monday, July 18, 2011

Ladies are u emotional?

do guys tell u ure being too emotional all the time...i wanna know if besides the fact that im a cancer it can be justified..coz i tend to go off on guys when i feel they r playing me for a fool. a guy can be in love with me but it doesn't mean anything if hes not texting or calling at least once a day n i will chew him out if hes constantly not doin this...i dont wanna understand he has other obligations checkin in is essential if we're in love...is it ok to chew a guy out? like tell hime verying hes doin wrong n wat u expected how hurt u r n all that??? is it not wise to jus spill how u feel in an uncontained way???

Worst day ever. I don't know what to do.?

It's school. not the rest of your life. you will still have your friends. And it's cross country, not the rest of your life. Next week, or even tomorrow will be better.

In starcraft 2, does the terran bunker focus fire on one target or can it shoot on multiple targets?

for example...if you put 4 marines inside, can it shoot at 4, 3, 2 different targets? Like does the AI randomly shoot at whatever is nearby? Does the 2 marauders in a bunker shoot at different targets? Can you choose which units fire at which ones if possible?

How can i overcome my eating disorder?

i'm sick of lying to those around me and myself. for the last few years my focus has been onlosing weigh,dieting and later binging, gaining the weight back and trying to lose it again. i can't help feeling disgust and hate towards myself at any weight,even when i get complimented for looking thinner or healthier. at 18 years old i have no real close friends as i tend to isolate myself and afraid of people getting too close. my mum knows something is wrong as she sees my unhealthy eating patterns and weight changes. she has tried to help but i push her away. i was anorexic for a few years in my childhood and relapsed a few months ago, getting down to 90 pounds but i've been binging uncontrollably and have gone up to over 100 pounds. i dont know what to do anymore! so sick of this life that is not a life...

This or that? I can't decide....?

Owen, Marcus, Damien, I like Corrina and Ashley, Louise, and neither... Some of the names are a bit different but they are all very nice, it just depends on which ones you like.

Should I call 911? Please help ?

well it wasnt right of you to go into their trash nor their lawn without permission. just try to keep a distance

How do i be honest with him?

okay so i started talking to this guy, now we text and stuff, we went on a date last week, and my friend is friends with him and talks to him and she knows he likes me. he has also told me that he likes me and he wants to go on another date, just i dont think i can. i dont like him and i dont want to hurt his feelings. hes really nice just i cant seem to like him like he likes me. plus, i have an ex and weve been starting to get closer and closer and i want to focus more on that. when i first started talking to this guy who likes me, my intentions werent to go out with him, but i think thats what his intentions were. i need to tell him somehow so he doesnt waste his time on me, just i really dont know how to because ive never been in this kind of situation before. thanks!

Need your help please! ?

So this woman I work with wants me to cover her shift 1:30 to 9 but I really don't want to. I don't like working at night and I don't know when I'll be moving into my new apt. What do I tell her? She's getting her tonsils taken out but I have other obligations too. I feel sorta bad though.

Does the service obligation include training?

A military contract has a length of time you are obligated to serve- for example 3 years. Is BT and AIT included? Would one be able to do his training and have that count towards the 3 years? Any branch.

Why did it take until 1950?

Curious as to why it took the Pope until 1950 to deem the Assumption of Mary as official Catholic church dogma? It is now celebrated as a Holy day of obligation and by this dogma if you at all question the validity of Mary being "assumed" to Heaven in body just like Jesus, you will be damned? Why did it take so long?

I bought an item online, now they refuse to ship it to me at that price and want to cancel or make me pay more?

So I bought an item off of AjMadison.com and I paid by card over the web and got a receipt email. Then they called the next day and said they made a mistake and they meant for the price to be over 100 dollars more and they would be happy to sell the item to me at that price or cancel the order. I feel like since I already paid and have a receipt for that item that despite their "error" that they are entitled to fulfill the contract and send me the item that I paid for. Legally, what are their obligations and does anyone have any advice for me in regards to what to say while contacting their customer service and not only complaining, but talking possible legal action?

What do you think of our baby names?

I would rate all of the boys names a nine and the name isabella a ten. I like the names especially isabella because it is kind of a classic, timeless name (and the name of a queen too)

I don't know what i want from life, i have everything but still ... This isnt it !!?

i know i sound crazy .... But this is the truth noone around me understands ... Am the only child, my parents love me a lot, i have a boyfriend doing postgraduation in otorhinolaryngology, he is gonna be a surgeon soon and i am in the final year of med school ... The fact is that i simply simply hate studying these medico books, the life here, how i've been brought up in a sheltered way and how my life is etched out right in front of me ... I am expected to get married in three to four years and then work in the local hospital in my town n stay around my family ... The truth is i hate medical profession so much that i am not being able to study hard enough, i wanna quit and do something which interests me... And intrigues my mind but i don't know what that would be .... I am 23 now and i hate the idea of getting married, having kids and making them go through the same old **** of school, college, life and competition... I feel like i haven't lived my life enough and i have given a majority of my youth to books and college ... I feel like breaking free, going wild ... Running away ... Alone.... Exploring this world ... Like a tourist ... No chains, obligations or people answerable to... I want to see everything in this world... The mountains, rivers, monastries.... All big and small places and meet all kinds of people and have expereinces ... But i know .... How my parents and my guy want me to become a respectable doctor, get married and serve the society, they dont let me do anything alone and since am the only child, i feel scared to let my loving parents down ... I've told them many times that i am not interested in this worldly rat race and dont wish to live like everyone else... I wanna go on a pilgrimage or gain spiritual knowledge and settle far away ... I dont wanna run after money or cars or better job or husband crap ... I feel like escaping, they tell me i need to get a job and have to get married ... They don't understand that this isn't my idea of happi

How is this story so far?

It's a very good start, but try to remember correct punctuation throughout, and varied lengths in sentences. Also, it's best to not have too many sentences starting with the word 'I'. Slow the story down a bit, take time to describe the surroundings, the emotions, etc. etc., and you'll be good. :) I would say.... 6 or 7 out of 10? Nice job<3

How can a unit honestly not care about their Soldiers?

When the man at the top "cares" the word trickles down the chain of command and everyone picks up the slack. When the man at the top is a button-pusher or just plain a bad leader it doesn't take long for that attitude to infect the chain of command.

Need help finding a love story, I only know part of the plot.?

Im not too familiar with christian romance authors but i know that if you google it,it comes up withauthors and books.

Cool and Slick 2012 Ford Focus Decals/Details?

I got my first new car and it is a dark Charcoal Color its not a hatchback, luckily im not a fan of those, does anyone know a site or have any ideas on some really awesome Decals/Details to add to it, and its not the sports model..sadly so it have a 4 not a 6 cylinder.

Do you like my list of names?

don't do reuben - it'd be like naming your kid after a sandwich. the others are good though (ezra is my favorite out of them all)

Is it right to spank your misbehaving kid?

This country is turning into a nation of whining sissies. We might as well be France! There is no reason for that woman to be charged with a felony for spanking her own child for misbehaving. When I was young and I blatantly did something wrong- I was spanked and guess what, I didn't misbehave again. I also turned out perfectly fine. A simple spank is not child abuse, it's teaching a lesson and not letting spoiled, ill-behaved, tyrannical kids run around without any consequences for their actions.

Why i always cry everyday?

now i am here with my sister and her boyfriend in htown but i don't want stay live with them because they re disrespect, drama, fight, yelling, and dirty. and my mom want me back with her in south valley i said no i don't want live with them because they re same thing too. i dislike. i like respect, happy, helping, show love, care, more mature, no dirty, no fight, no drama, and more things that's what i want to....my mom just don't care and use me...i told my mom i want move live with my boyfriend because i like his respect, learn to bible, helping, show love, care, cleaning, cooking, teach me how to cook from arabic, he make me happy i never had happy before in my life. also i love his family and they love me too. i want move live with him because i want move on, new life, focus do my school, and HAPPY! but i can't because i'm 17 and my boyfriend is 23 old year but i have wait to my birthday on new year .....ok well i'm not happy with my family and what should i do? just stay strong and positive?

My Friend Beat Up My Date....?

okay so umm... what did you date exactly do to you for your friend to beat him up.. hmm... if you was pretty messed up how do you no he didnt try to do something to you? and your friend walked in? remember he kept pushing you down...

How to deal with TimBob's worry?

I don't think you should stop answering questions now because if you do, he'll think something has changed and things are no longer okay. But perhaps you can become more vague and not let on that things got worse. Are there books about kids who's parents have what you have? Maybe if he can see another kid going through what your family is going through he will be less worried. But I think the curiosity is natural. It's something wrong with his mum, so of course he wants to understand it. I think honestly explaining it was a good way of dealing.

How is the life of a stay-at-home mom different from the life of a housewife with children?

Same meaning, different connotation. An SAHM is a more modern word ,that's all. Our duties are very similar, we just have modern conveniences, modern social standing and generally have more access to leaving the home when we want/need to.

Appreciate your thoughts on this situation?

If you don't get the check in the next day or two, hire a lawyer. Sometimes people don't take you seriously until a lawyer gets involved. It would be worth it just to have someone get you real answers instead of this runaround from the company. A lawyer could get in touch with the insurance company and light a fire them to get your money. One other thing I'd suggest is to write your incident to a newspaper that has an investigatory column for people who have been screwed over. We have one where I live, called The Fixer and they look into matters of this sort. Most times they get people their money back and then some.

Help with my valedictorian speech?

I'd first remove the mountain metaphor as it is a bit overused. Secondly, I think the latin root plug doesn't really play in with what you've said earlier. I'd move the "This graduating class of 2011..." paragraph further up on your speech and end on "These are the skills that will carry us through high school and that will make us the best graduating class John G has ever known."

Annya Gioia Vincent and Ezra?

Please a middle name for each. I need to use Lucinda and Jonathan. So pick a boy middle name and a girl then use Lucinda and Jonathan as well. Do you like Jonathan or Jonathon?

Its been over 2 years but still no commitment not even dating. what should i do? am i getting played or what?

This guy and I have been sleeping together on and off for almost 2 years now, we go out to dinner or to do something fun, I know his whole family and go to his family gatherings, we can just lay in bed and talk and cuddle all night without having sex. He kisses me with passion not just a stupid peck, he says he cares about me. I am currently almost 9 months pregnant but not with his child, with someone i dated for a short time now my daughters father is no longer around and hasnt been since 8 weeks, then him and I started our weird relationship again and he calls every single night to tell me goodnight and to have me put my phone to my stomach so he can tell her goodnight, brings me food or whatever im craving at anytime of the night even tho he lives 20 minutes away, goes to my doctors appointment with me but yet we are still just friends. He was married before and his wife was killed in a car accident on there 2 year wedding anniversary. he was driving but it wasnt his fault. that was 6 years ago and she was his only love, they were together since they were 13. he is now 30 and keeps saying it makes a horrible bf because he focuses to much on his video games but yet ive never seen it. he also says he isnt ready for another commitement because he is scared of loosing someone else. Does it sound like im getting used just for sex or could there maybe be some truth to what he is saying. I really love him and he knows that but doesnt say anything back really. I hate giving up hope but ive never felt like this before with anyone else and i think thats why i always go back to him.

My computer keeps on coming up with an error message about my ati radeon x300 se driver sayin it dusnt work?

i cant play games or use it to create games (which is what im focusing on at the moment) an i cant fix it heeeeeellllllppp

WTF is Obama doing with all this worthless news!?!!?

No you and every faithful follower of faux "news" feels this way. Of course every time the President tries to create jobs the conservative element starts shouting "Socialism" and claiming such actions is the same as Nazi Germany. The President recently hugged a crying baby and it stopped. Too bad he can't give the conservative element a big hug.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

How is James Harden the best role player in the NBA?

I watched every Thunder game last year and the guy is not the best role player in the NBA. What is that Rudy guy talking about. Lamar is when focused

Mom is pregnant - Twins!!' Help Me with names ? <3?

I like Charlie Evan and Caleb Ezra but really think that Xander Ezra or Xavier Frey would sound nice! ( frey is to represent that you named him. I think that's cute!) I hope I helped and congrats on your new baby brothers! :)

What obligations do Buddhists have that separate them from Atheist?

I'll admit that I don't know much about Buddhism so this may be a stupid question to some if not most people. It just bothers me that the religion that is least controversial is not practiced as much. By definition an atheist is someone who does not believe in any gods, is this the only thing different from being Buddhist?

What am i required to do if my name is not on a tennancy lease and i want to move out?

In most cases you are required to give a 30 days notice to move. The fellow that is out to sea is on the hook for the rents.

Will Methadone help me break my addiction? Please help me?

Well, its used to break addictions so, I guess it could help, but you will get addicted to it, so I dont know

Volunteering and leadership?

just make sure you use a lot of sat words because they really look at that but make sure they make sense i dont understand the prompt

Is there a demon in my house?

I have had my name called out and it can be quite unsettling and a bit concerning. Not knowing with whom the voice came from and why they called out was probably the more difficult aspects to accept at first. Once I accepted it as probably just being a ghost , It did become something that I found that I could live with. I have done a good amount of research on this subject and it never gets boring . Hearing others accounts just reminds me of my own personal experiences and what I have looked into over the years Ive come to find that it really is common. I would not conclude that it was a demon but could just be a ghost though I would do all you can to see if it was something that was just over looked . Some times there can be a reasonable explanation for what it was but it very well can be a ghost. I would see if you can capture some evidence by taking some photos or possibly recording somehow in the areas that this voice was heard. You just may capture something. Good luck and take care.

Anime similar to Majutsushi Orphen (sorcerous stabber orphan)?

Im looking for something similar to orphan where the main character is really strong, and the focus of the plot is about him. Must be a male lead character and have action or magic.

Which names are better?

The only ones that aren't cruel to give to a child are Victor, Ezra, and Stella. Do you realise how much crap a kid called Love would have going through school? Or Pilot, for that matter? "Hey Pilot, where's your plane huh?" Kids can be tools, remember that when you have one.

Question about rent to own houses?

The first 5 years the loan of $68,000. will be almost all interest based on 6% interest. Instead of having $525.00 amonth going to the principle for rent, he will only have about $30.00 amonth going for the principle every month. so take $30.00 month X 12 months= $360.00 principle per year X 5 years =$1,800. paid on principle loan balance $68,000-$1,800= $66,200.00 balance end of 5 years. You will still be accountable for property taxes and homeowners insurance. The rent should go up to almost $900.00 per month. Check his income and work history and have him prequalified for said loan with a mortgage broker. based on 35% of his income. If he can't qualify for a loan or is a credit risk, don't tie the property up. The end of 5 years that contract may be sold at a discount to a investor, but remember costs of repairs for those 5 years, such as a new roof, attorney fees should he default and if he files bankruptcy you will be up a creek. Don't sell rent to own, you will regret it !

What do you think of my favorite baby names? + BQs?

Willow Sage is pretty, and I like Ezra as well. I like Hadriel for a middle name though. Also, Charlotte and Harper are gorgeous names! Charlotte Harper, maybe? :)

How would you deal with a child who...?

Run away with them. And explain that the rest of the family can do for them selves. My mom did this with my brother. They went to a park and sat there all day. Until he got hungry and sleepy. When my mom told him this is how people live when they run away. He didn't think it was so cool after that. And it stopped. Maybe you could also think about the way you are punishing him.

What is this type of photo called?

I would like to take photos for my photography project, and I have had the idea of having someone sitting on a bench perfectly in focus and crisp, and everything else (that moves) in the image is blured. I need to get some photos like this for research purposes but I have know idea what to search for on the web. Any Ideas? Thanks :)

What should we do? Stick to family obligation or spend time together?

My Boyfriend has been in Ukraine for almost 3 weeks with his Marine Corps unit, he gets home this Saturday and we haven't seen or talked to each other since he left on the 5th. Problem is that when he gets home we have to go to his uncles retirement party then my uncle and aunts 50th anniversary that is 1 1/2 hour away and then he has to go straight back to work the next day...so we pretty much get no time together once he gets home. Should we skip the events in order to spend time together or still go and just somehow find time after everything is done?

What Camera Should I Get?

I'm looking for a camera that I can shoot models outside and inside with. It needs to be around $300.00. Great mega pixels and also very good at taking pictures in low light and in bright light. Also a camera that will still focus if I shake it a tiny bit. I just need a little help deciding which one should I get for what I'm going to do with it. I'd kill myself if I went and bought a camera that didn't work!

Book suggestions: books with several main characters? e.g. sisterhood series?

im looking for books that have several main characters and focuses on all there issues equally. for example the sisterhood of the travelling pants series. it can be any genre. thank you.

Am I obligated to honor financial promises I made to my NOW EX Girlfriend?

Obligations are rent, educational and living expenses I was paying for her while dating. We ended the relationship mutually but I still love her. She cannot afford these expenses but it seems like she feels that she's entitled to them. She only calls me when she has problems, and is usually too busy to see or speak with me. She also refuses to ask for the help because she thinks she doesnt have to.

Make name combinations with my fav boy names please?

If you name a kid Phineas, Ellington, Adler or Finley, make sure he gets karate lessons at an early age. He'll need them.

Which names for boy/boy twins?

Garrett Henry & Oscar James. Maybe you could also use Oliver instead of Oscar. They both sound nice with Garrett.

Which car is better........................…

Is the 2011 Hyundai Elantra or the 2011 Ford Focus better? Tell me why you think a certain one is better or worse than the other. Thanks!!

Will a student loan cover the costs of an apartment, books, and tuition?

I've got enough saved from years because I'm a late student. I'm only half into my second year & nearly 30. Anyway, I should be able to handle tuition the rest of this year and next year. Next year's college is going to be $1,000 a class. Dorm rooms are $600/$700 a month. So considering that much money for a confined space, I'd rather have an apartment at the same price. But being nearly 30, I get a lot of crap about being part of the boomerang generation. I don't want to have to hold down two jobs to get an apartment again. Just one part time job, I figure for food- gas- and utilities. And I don't have collateral either. My focus is Forensic Science, Bachelors of Science, so I believe that may pay pretty well when I find a related job in that field. I could probably pay it all back eventually.

How to prove unemployment /child support fraud?

I think you should keep your son at home with you. His father is setting a very bad example. You realize that YOU will have to pay child support now right? You can't really prove that your ex is working unless you get his employer to tell on him or hire a private investigator. It's really out of your hands and you shouldn't worry about it. Just focus on teaching your son to do better.

What do you think about the name Ezra fora boy?

I don't know how that would be pronounced, but I don't think I like that.. Everyones opinion is different though, so if you like it that's what really matters, because you're the one who is going to be hearing it all the time :) isabel rose I think sounds cute, phoebe lynn, and I can't think of one for ellen, sorry.

Why has my 20 year old son has not shown any signs of liking girls?

My oldest son who is soon to be 20 has not shown any signs of liking girls. My son is a very very good son in fact his father and I kid around saying that he is not normal because he is such a nice person in every way we see it. He is very respectful, polite, courteous, generous and considerate and also very smart. He is now attending his second year of college and is doing very well with everything. Except i have never seen him hanging out with any girls, talking on the phone with any girls and bringing home any girls or even talking about girls at all, like most guys do. Most guys talk about seeing a girl at a store and how good looking she was or this and that. My son has a group of friends who he met in high school and still hangs out with them because they all go to college together. I have met all of them and I know that none of them appear to be gay. He talks on the phone with some of them about classes they have in school and or video games and movies, etc. My son says some of the guys have girlfriends and some don't. My other son who is 17 is hanging out with a couple of girls and i hear him talking on his cell phone with them and has even brought a few female friends to the house. I have asked my 20 year old son what kind of girls he likes in a way because I am trying to find out something that can tell me about his thoughts or feelings and he just tells me he likes any type of girl as long as they pretty he says beauty is in the eye of the beholder, which is true, but still i end up knowing nothing. When people ask me how my son is they always also ask me if he has a girlfriend which I always used to say "no" he just has a group of friends, girls and guys. They always seem to be surprised and make me feel uneasy. Now when they ask i lie and say he does just so they leave me alone. My son seems to think that I am homophobic because i always say things that make him think i don't like gays or lesbians and one day he asked me jokingly what would I think if he told me he was gay and I reacted in a very emotional and hysterical and during this whole conversation he was laughing and I asked him "what are you trying to tell me?" he said "Nothing I just know how you get feel about that and I like to see you scare. He says i overreact to many things. Things like these make me feel uneasy about thinking of a possibility of him not liking girls, and being gay and being afraid of me and his dad. Or maybe he is just very shy and does not know how to open up to girls and or talk to girls. He is not the person to initiate a conversation with people. He and I are somewhat alike. We always say to each other that if someone does not talk to us, we won't go the extra step to talk to people. I don't know what to think. We tend to avoid crowds and loud occasions. When we do have to go to parties is because we have to as an obligation and if we can kick it home we rather stay home. I hoping that this is the reason why. I welcome your opinion.

Lgbt; how to forget about wanting to be in a relationship?

I feel okay with being single, but sometimes feel like being in a relationship, how do you forget about this? I try to make myself busy but I feel like I want a companion? What's the best way to just keep focused?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Parents do you think I am being unreasonable?

Legally your child's father is paying child support monthly, verbal agreement made between both of you-other lady has nothing to do with it, she should stay out of it. You are not being unreasonable-if your ex refuses to pay there is nothing you can do about it. My ex paid child support monthly-never put in extra penny towards anything else.

Estranged ex-husband wants to see children! Should I let him?

Okay so It's a long story, but I'll try to some it up for you all! I was 5 months pregnant with our 3rd child when my ex-husband, who was always both mentally and physically abusive ran off and left the children and I! I can't say that I wasn't happy to see him go that day because I actually was, I no longer wanted to be around him and more important than that, I didn't want him around my babies for fear that he would turn abusive towards them! I hadn't seen or heard of him until 4 days ago, when out of the blue he calls me and says that he's sorry for ever treating me the way he did and that he never should have left me by myself with the children, he also told me he would like to see them if I would let him! I don't know what to do! He seemed very sincere when he called, but you never can tell! If I let him, I don't think he'll come in here and start punching our children around or anything, more than that I'm just worried what effect it will have on them because their so young! Lillian (10) remembers him a little, Ezra (6) doesn't remember him at all, and Xavier (4) has never met him, to have a strange man come walking into your home, saying that he's your father, I mean what kind of things could that do to a child's mind? Maybe I'm just over reacting! What do you think I should do?

Can I become a zookeeper with an anthropology major?

Probably biology or animal behavior. But I'm pretty positive you don't need to be a college graduate to become a zookeeper unless you want to be a manager.

How would you deal with a child who...?

Talk to him. The child knows that you care but doesn't know what else to do but run from his problems. The child knows you care but give a good reason/explanation and show more care everyday... It seems that your not close to the child.

What to respond to my coach's email?

My cross country coach sent me a really long email about how he was disappointed in my focus on the sport... and as I read the whole email I started bawling crying because he also basically insulted me to my face like 5 times saying I was lazy and that my attitude is unacceptable . He said that he was disappointed in me like 5 times for not having looked at the chart he emailed us that said what zone our heart rates were supposed to be in, and also he said that I "need a major wake up call" and the whole email I guess was somewhat necessary because I have been slacking off a little (not in my workouts though, in other things like wearing my heart rate monitor and such) but it was really really mean and it made me cry for at least an hour. I read it about an hour ago and I am still crying. I don't even know what to reply to him. Do I try to explain myself, or just say I will work harder from now on? Or do I might as well quit the team bc the email was so mean? Like I really do not know what to do.... the email was such a surprise. Has anyone else ever had a similar situation where the coach like corners you and tell you you aren't focused enough? helppppppp

How does a person maintain interest in a book so as to read much of it in one sitting?

I've managed to read some books in one sitting but then again, they're rarely 'hard going' books but more like, easy reading fiction and things like Twilight :p I find the same like you for books I have to read but then I just keep working through them, telling myself that in this hour I will read it and try and get to a certain page number. If its boring I work on chapters/page numbers and getting over them. If it's interesting to me then I don't even remember those techniques.

The Johnsons have accumulated a nest egg of $18,000 that they intend to use as a down payment toward the purch?

The Johnsons have accumulated a nest egg of $18,000 that they intend to use as a down payment toward the purchase of a new house. Because their present gross income has placed them in a relatively high tax bracket, they have decided to invest a minimum of $1300/month in monthly payments (to take advantage of the tax deduction) toward the purchase of their house. However, because of other financial obligations, their monthly payments should not exceed $1600. If local mortgage rates are 7.5%/year compounded monthly for a conventional 30-yr mortgage, what is the price range of houses they should consider? (Round your answers to the nearest cent.)

Which boy names do you like from my list?

River, Forest, Fletcher, Atticus, Amadeus, Declan, Gavin, Gunnar, Colton, Harrison, Judson, Lawson, Lincoln,Weston, Easton, Asher, Emerson, Heath, Holden, Jude, Ezra and Pierce!

WDYT of these names for boys?

Oh those are really great names! I like Killian, Cathal, Kellen, or Sean. If my parents had a son they wanted to name him Jeremy Sean, and I always thought it was neat.

What is wrong with my eyes?

Lately I've been having eye redness (very red) with swelling. I have always had sensitivity to light, but it is worse now. It hurts to focus vision sometimes and eye movement feels like I've been punched. Went to doc's office about 3 weeks ago. She gave me antibiotics and prescribed Azelastine HCI ophthalmic solution. Finished antibiotics and used the solution as prescribed. Symptoms went away for about a week. I also take zyrtec for allergies. I do not wear contacts or glasses. I checked my vision 6 months ago and it was 20/20. Now what?

What are some easy to make throw-together vegetable/fruit focused main dishes (examples below)?

A stir-fry. You need a pan, oil, and random vegetables (whatever is in your fridge). Seasoning is nice too. If you have meat, add meat, but cook the meat first then add vegetables or cook them separately than combine them.

How much of a home can i afford?

Im currently saving for a home and paying all pass due bills i owe off,my monthly income is 4150.00 and my current obligations are about 1700.00 a month id like to buy a home that i can fix and live in at the same time without having to spend alot of money right away i;m single all my kids are grown and i just got back to work id like a home with a big garage and possibly 2 bedrooms fenced yard because i have a dog how much of a home can i really afford with out having to pay alife time for i am 53 years old

What name is best for Maeve's brother?

Maeve & Oscar - I just think these two would work fabulously for brother & sister. They have the same sort of old fashioned but sweet feel to me.

I need to send an MP3 clip to someone on Facebook, but it's impossible?

I should preface this by saying, my knowledge of all things technical is appalling. But I really need to send an Mp3 audio clip to someone and it seems like this is impossible. It is a professional obligation and this person is not on my friends list (if this makes a difference) But is there any way to convert the MP3 to a format that is able to be sent? My only access to them is through Facebook. Thank you so much for any advice.

How can i be honest with him?

okay so i started talking to this guy, now we text and stuff, we went on a date last week, and my friend is friends with him and talks to him and she knows he likes me. he has also told me that he likes me and he wants to go on another date, just i dont think i can. i dont like him and i dont want to hurt his feelings. hes really nice just i cant seem to like him like he likes me. plus, i have an ex and weve been starting to get closer and closer and i want to focus more on that. when i first started talking to this guy who likes me, my intentions werent to go out with him, but i think thats what his intentions were. i need to tell him somehow so he doesnt waste his time on me, just i really dont know how to because ive never been in this kind of situation before. thanks!

Pretty little liars season 2 episode 2 music?

does anyone know the music that was used in pretty little liars season 2 episode 2? the main song im looking for is the one at the end where aria runs to ezra?

Does my crush like me?

maybe hes over you and you said you used to date so why didn't you just say how do i know if my ex still likes me ? the last part confuses me sorry im slow

Can my ex come after me for joint debt after I file bankruptcy?

my ex wife was awarded the house during the divorce. the negative equity in the house forced me to take on all the rest our our debt. with my support obligations, its too much. on top of that, our decree states that we are to hold each other harmless from the debts we agreed to take on. well, she never made one payment on the house after I made my last payment. the house went into foreclosure ruining my credit score and my second mortgage is threatening to come after me for the difference. (not to mention she got a couple cool grand as a parting gift in the cash for keys program) my bk lawyer says I'm fine to file bk on our joint debt with no repercussions from my ex because she failed to meet her obligations first. my ex is saying she is going to sue me for the joint debt after I file since she will prob be our creditors Target after I'm relieved. so who's right? I can see were my lawyer is coming from but my decree does say I'm supposed to hold her harmless from the joint debt I took on. anyone have any insight on this?

Planning ahead... What to do when I go for University?

It's totally possible to keep a horse and go to college. I'm almost done and have managed to have 1-2 horses the entire 4 years. Definitely not easy as have to work to have money for the horses and find time to ride, go to class, study etc. But I do it and manage to get mostly A's too! I did say goodbye to a social life :) but for me totally worth it as I'm not a party girl anyway. I have learned to be very smart with money to make it all work. It is possible but depends on your situation.

How do I lose weight on short notice?

I'm starting 7th grade in a bit over a month! -.-" Anyway, I wanna know if I can lose 5-15 pounds through that amount of time. I want to really focus on the tummy and I want to tone my thighs. I can't really cut out on anything because we don't have that type of money where we just stop eating something and go buy another. And I want to boost my metabolism too. They say eat about every 3 hours. I can't do that! I have school. It's frustrating because I'm on vacation and I don't want to exercise alone. (7th grade tips or experiences will be appreciated) An at home workout plan would be helpful for my teen girl self! Thanks people! muchlove

Is this a good way to tell him how I feel?

Yes I think it is a great idea, with those songs he'd have to be pretty slow not to get it, he's a romantic type so he will love this plus a few of those songs are from the 80s so it pays tribute to god old fashioned mix tapes. Good luck!

Can someone write me a cycling training schedule that will make me go to the TDF?

Im 16 years old, quite fit, currently riding on the road/mtb/windtrainer about 5 times per week. I'm Elliot, I want to race in the Tour De France. I am dedicated, and will ride whatever is required of me. I hope to build up my cycling strength until I am ready to compete in the TourDeFrance. I have been riding a fair bit... I came 3rd at the New Zealand Triathlon Nationals, but have cut back on my training, and now I want to focus solely on riding. I am starting to ride about 4-5 times per week. I need someone to help me stay on track, give me a training schedule, and I'll go far. This is my goal, and I'll strive for it.

Song playing on Pretty LIttle Liars Season 2 Episode 2?

when Aria is waiting in Ezra's apartment and he doesn't show? There was a lyric that I remembered........ something about an Achilles heel?

I'm looking for a quote used in Pretty Little Liars... please help!?

What is the quote Ezra Fitz uses when he is leaving his class in the episode, "The Goodbye Look"?

Very forgetful off antidepressants?

Ever since I stopped antidepressants a few months ago, I have been getting more and more forgetful about things. I forget where I'm going when I'm driving, I forget if I have money and how much, I forget to eat, and I work at a stable part time, and yesterday I forgot to turn off the hose and made a small Nile river in the barn area, I forget to turn off lights, close gates, etc which gets me in trouble too. I forget to FOCUS. I drift off into lala land ALL the time, and forget what I'm doing, why I went into a room, etc. It's so bad that when I am switching radio stations, I switch usually only once before I go into lala land and then wonder why I'm annoyed at what I'm listening to. This daydreaming this really frustrating and the forgetfulness is getting to the point where people are getting annoyed with me it feels like. I mean, I was on antidepressants for ten years. Is this some sort of brain damage caused by them? Do I have ADD and not realize it? Did the antidepressants cover that up? I didn't have ADD as a teenager. Anyways, I am also dealing with a lot of things like learning who I am off of the medicine. I was in therapy for 6 years while on the med learning to overcome social anxiety and now that I'm off the medicine I feel like I have to relearn all my therapy because things are new again. I have been trying to ward off depression by taking 5htp and st. johns wort. It works some. I have also been using my therapy skills. I cry sometimes at night, though not every night. My anxiety is worse in situations I would have remained calm in if I was on medicine. Like, this morning when I was at my boyfriend's house getting ready for work and realized I forgot my pants. I live 45 mins away so I got realllyyy upset. I got mad at my bf (I don't know why) and myself and stopped talking. He said it would be best if I just laughed the situation off, called work and told them I would be late, and went home to get pants. But I just shut down and when he walked me out to the car, I was still acting mad and I apologized, bust into tears and cried all the way home, where I called work, told them I was sick and can't come in. I mean Jeez, where IS my head? Then I slept until 3 pm bc I'm so emotionally exhausted and I couldn't think anymore. I am not getting back on antidepressants unless God holds a sign in front of me that clearly says: FAIL. I want to try to live off of medicine bc it made me someone I was not, I didn't care about anything, and had all sorts of crappy side effects even on a low dose. Someone help me with my questions, please? I don't have money to go to my therapist and I miss her. I've been very tearful lately, which I read sometimes happens when you are learning to live off antidepressants. I feel like everything is building up and I need to talk, but I can't. I just know the next time I actually can afford to go to therapy, I won't know how to consolidate everything into only an hour, and I'll probably just cry and won't even know where to start. Help, thanks...

If a pastor preaches a message that the majority of the church thinks is wrong, does the church have . . .?

If a pastor preaches a message that the majority of the church thinks is wrong, does the church have the obligation to publicly question the preacher?

Have hard feelings towards my Father?

Sweety, your father is a lunatic and should be in the damn mental hospital. You don't nerd counseling, he's the one who needs the counseling. Keep you and your child away from him.

What is my employer's legal obligation to my missing paycheck?

i originally was supposed to receive my paycheck for may 1st-15th in the mail, but have not received it. i have asked my employer about it quite a few times but get a different answer every time. she claimed to not have mailed it until june 10th. i've asked her to put a stop on the original check that i have not received, but what she is telling me is that they do not have the check number so they can not put a stop on it. now she's saying all she can do is give me a loan until the original check returns to her, which doesnt sound right to me. im wondering, by law, what is her obligation to my check that i have yet to receive?

What does this phrase mean?

It tells me to find a church that is more concerned with teaching of God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit, leading souls to be saved. This sounds like a church more concerned with how many people are in the pews, and not at the altar! Time to find the right house of God!

Would you call police?

Legally yes you do have an obligation but you definitely have one as a friend.In the U.S. you have to report if it involves any kind of abuse, if someone may be a threat to other people, or to themselves. You should talk to him. It'll make him feel wanted. Never think that someone is joking about killing themselves. Always say something. Its better to have said something and they were "joking" then to have not said something and they were serious. Good Luck! I know things must be hard for both of you. Hope I helped

Is it possible to be addicted to soda?

you can be mentally and physically addicted to soda. if you drink soda daily then your body will start craving the caffeine. try limiting how much sodas you drink a day or if you drink one every day limit how many you drink a week. you could try replacing soda with any other drinks you like that don't have caffeine in it. i used to be addicted to dr. pepper. i would HAVE to have at least one every day if not two. when i drink soda it calms me down also and when i don't have a soda i would feel irritable and i would get headaches. but i replaced dr. pepper with capri suns and flavored water and also tea (i know it has caffeine in it). the tea would still give me the little bit of caffeine i "needed" but, drinking that with juice, i soon was able to not have to drink tea every day either.

Not sure what to do anymore?

I think the best way to go is to get your friends together and base your free time around them. Don't let yourself be alone because it might start you thinking about your ex. Spend time around people who care about you and want to see you smiling, most importantly have fun! If a guy asks you out who you find decent, it's better to give him a chance than to reject him straight off. By agreeing to go on a date you're not betraying anyone! You will eventually find someone who you can love even more than your ex, you just have to give it a try each time the opportunity comes round. Being single can be so much fun, you just need to look at things objectively and decide what's best for you: whether you want to be in a relationship or whether you're ok being single for a while. You never know when someone will come into your life, you just have to take opportunities when they come! You will definitely get over him, it's still an open wound. You just have to get far away from him, and try to have fun without him, you'll be fine :)

Can i watch degrassi online ?

I mean live, like the new episode that's on tv, can I watch it online alas its preferring on tv or no. Do I have to wait trill ra old. My mom and stepdad turned off the cable cuz hey want to focus on other thing and 'purge it from our systems' so basically the whole family's tv privileges have been suspended indefinatly. And I will not miss my derassi so please help.

Forced Medical Reclass?

I am in the Michigan Army National Guard and I just graduated basic training. In week 7 of bct I fractured my pelvis. I was able to graduate and then following graduation I went home for 30 days on Convelesent leave to have some healing time before AIT. My MOS is 68W (combat medic). After the 30 days I had to go back to Fort Jackson to be outprocessed but first I had to see a physical therapist to get my return to duty orders. They gave me a perment profile (6 months no running) BUT said I was ok to go to Fort Sam Houston for AIT.... when I arrived at Fort Sam and showed the sergeants my profile they immediatley said there's no way i could do medic training and I would have to reclass... The sergeant also gave me a counseling statment stating that I have violated my MOS obligations and when I went to see the National Guard Leasion they said that because I violated my MOS obligations that I won't get to have a choice as to what my new MOS is...I've been told that that is not true though. And I'm not sure how they can say I violated my obligations considering I got injured during bct doing what I was told to do...thier response was "well its not our fault." I've been talking to other soldiers here at AIT and some say I will be a holdover for a long time, anywhere between 3-12 months. I really need some advice, I feel like I'm being messed with and I won't allow them to do that. I feel I should have say in my new MOS and I couldn't imagine being a holdover for that long...Any advice would be much appreciated...Should I talk to JAG? I'm just looking for any information as possible. Also my battle buddy here is in the exact situation with me, we went to bct together and have the same stress fracture and are together here at AIT, only difference is that she is Active First National Guard so she is being processed as active. Thanks.

Can I evict myself from my rental property?

What is not code? You do have the right to timely repairs so document that with emails AND registered letters. You may leave if not addressed. Your deposit is do you but you may not get it if landlord maintains the damages are your fault. Document, document, document.

Response to my coach's disappointed email?

I don't think there were too many excuses- perhaps trying to end it with a "thanks for your feedback, I'll work on improving my attitude"

Friday, July 15, 2011

Do I have inattention ADD ? Im not quite sure?

First of all, you keep saying, "attention ADD". You are basically saying, "attention attention deficit disorder". Second, you sound like one of those people who freaks out over every disease they show one symptom of. Don't worry about it. Everyone your age shows those symptoms, including me, and I'm 16.

Preparing to run a 10k, should I continue jogging or do leg exercises instead?

I have a 10k coming up soon and was curious which I should focus more on now. I've been jogging a fair bit the past few months, but there is room for improvement. Meanwhile, I haven't done much leg exercises. If I should do more leg exercises, which ones are most beneficial towards running long distances? Thanks!

Why is there a kind of obligation to have?

I laughed out loud at the midwife comment. First, I never felt any kind of obligation to have a boyfriend by my parents and they certainly don't want me to have a baby without a husband.

I really want to see him but how please?

what r u doing? he doesn`t like u anymore , pleas think about your futur your studies & yourself. he isn`t the whole your life. he is subterfuging. he doesn`t want u. ok? bleave me. it`s hard but try to start new beautiful life, don`t think about him don`t cry & don`t leave message anymore. if u do this u will be succesful bleave me dear.

Where do you find the latest jokes ?

There are many jokes making the round and will win applauds in time. I want to know where they first appear. Any help will be an obligation to me.

I'm Feeling Suicidal Please Help?

In many communities, it's difficult being gay especially at 18 years old. There are studies that show that gays are sometimes emotionally delayed because they spend so much time coming to terms with being gay. The fact that you admit your gay shows your on a good track. Now, the problem is that you have almost no friends, so your straight friend as become a sort of ideal of what a lover should be like. That's not fair to you, to him, or to the other people who could get to know and love you. I would urge you to get involved in activities where there are other gays -- politics, a gym, theater, the arts, a hip coffee house, or a workplace where you might meet other gays. I would encourage you not to move where he lives, because in a way it's your relationship with him that is causing you so much pain. Trust me when I say this: Someday, you will meet someone else to love, and you will see your straight friend in a different light. You will still perhaps be fond of him, but you will learn that there are other people with different strengths who are even more worthy of your love. When you go to college, you will have the opportunity to meet new gay people, and your life will be much, much better. For now, try to identify baby steps you can take to make your life a little better. And, if you're seriously thinking of suicide, go to the emergency room. Suicide is the most definite of mental illnesses, since every cell in your body is designed to move you forward in time. It's human instinct to live, and if your brain is telling you to do self harm, then go to the ER where they will help you out. Good luck.

Do windows have to be a certain standard when living next to a noisy road?

we live in a first floor flat overlooking a busy road,we have double glazed wooden windows that have seen better days,does our housing asociation have an obligation to replace them with a better standard of window,is there a noise level that they have to keep to.

Okay, what is this bug that i found?

i live in North Carolina. i am located on the coast, like 30 minutes or so from the state port. i was outside exploring yesterday and i found this weird bug on my foot, i do not know where it came from or how it got there but i have never seen one before. it kind of looked like a spider without its head. it is black and looks to me it has about 6 legs on it side, i do not see eyes or a head. can anyone identify this thing for me and tell me what it is? i have a picture, i don't think it is a good picture, a bit out of focus because i took it with my p.o.s cell phone. if you are willing to take a look at the picture, email me at ckunnmann@yahoo.com

Serious question; Do liberals believe that this country is out of money and the USD is in serious trouble?

Even if everyone was taxed at 100%, the US would be unable to meet its current obligations without printing money

So in Islam is the Hijab a choice or an obligation?

I'm an Orthodox Christian and I do wear a head-covering because I think it's right and I chose to... in Islam is the Hijab something that is a personal decision for each girl, her family, and God, or is it a commandment

How to make the final decision to divorce?

In the past 3 years I have been thinking about divorce. We have seperated twice so I know that if we seperate this time it is over for good. I keep reading tons of articles on the pros and cons of divorce. Many of them focus on the children. We have no children as I am infertile and was honestly the beginning of this downhill slide. It has just created one problem after another. But when do you know its really over?? I guess I am just thinking too much and too worried about life after the papers are signed...help from those who have personally went through this would be great. Thanks.

Do you ex-miitary veterans out there pretty much agree with this?

Ok, so as of late I have been reading where some veterans have faced downright discrimination with respect to being hired by civilian companies. In one veteran's case, a female navy veteran who had just graduated from Rutgers university was denied employment due to her veterans status. So, I have come to the conclusion that it is BEST to totally leave military service off of one's resume UNLESS you are applying for a job with the U.S. government. It is for this reason that I believe that a military draft SHOULD be the law of the land in this country where two years of MANDATORY military service is required. As it stands right now, military veterans make up less than 1% of the total U.S. population and are discriminated against on a regular basis with respect to being hired by civilian corporations. MOST hiring managers have this idea in their heads that EVERYBODY who serves in the U.S. Army and Marine Corps is an infantryman and kills people whereas veterans KNOW that this is simply NOT true. If military service were mandatory for EVERBODY then civilian hiring managers would have no choice but to hire veterans. That's why we need a draft in this country. Conscientious objectors could be allowed to serve in non-combat/non-infantry jobs to fulfill their obligations. To sum this up, do any of you all know how I can get around the "gap" on my resume by leaving my Marine Corps time off so that I can stand a fighting chance of finding a civilian job when I FINALLY graduate an "old man" at the age of 32?

Legal advice reguarding bill paying in the UK?

Hi there.sorry to hear of your problem.i think its very wrong that you should even have to go to this level to get the cash back your owed.this guy could at least offer to pay you back maybe in instalments rather than one hit. I'm not sure how small claims court would work as you was bill payer and they would have been in your name.plus this guy that owes the cash could then say you paid the bills and he contributed in other ways such as food laundry and other stuff. I would ask again for cash our instalments.if not threaten court action to him plus mension the added costs he would incur. Goodluck with things hope you get the cash.

Is it possible to self-review Calculus I within a month?

Yes easily... there's not much in calculus I.. plus the first part of a calculus 2 class is usually a review of calculus 1..

What is my employer's legal obligation to my missing paycheck?

i originally was supposed to receive my paycheck for may 1st-15th in the mail, but have not received it. i have asked my employer about it quite a few times but get a different answer every time. now she's saying all she can do is give me a loan until the original check returns to her, which doesnt sound right to me. im wondering, by law, what is her obligation to my check that i have yet to receive?

Is it 'appropriate' to have a renewal of vows after 10 years of marriage?

Do me a BIG favor and ignore all the negativity. There is nothing wrong with renewing your vows. I think its fantastic to do it and do it however you like. I'm planning my wedding now, and I'm shocked at how many divorces I've seen in my friends in their 20s already! It seems nobody cares to honor the promises vows make anymore. We all could use a reminder of those promises. I wonder sometimes if it would help if we renewed our vows every year. If that's what it takes to remind ourselves about what we promised to the other person, and depending on your religion, to God. My parents struggled a lot, but they're still together because they remember their promise no matter how tough life gets. They renewed their vows about 12 years in the Church, just like you plan. So don't listen to all these grumpy people and go celebrate your birthday and your successful marriage and family!!! :)

Thoughts on Mexican Americans rooting for Mexico?

Okay so its been a few days after the game and instead of reading reviews on the game, theres nothing but hate filled articles aimed towards the fact that there were a lot more Mexican supporters than US ones. I went to the game, I was rooting for Mexico, and I was born here. I love America. I would fight and die for her, but all the hate aimed towards my own ancestors kind of makes me feel frustrated with being American. I mean, at least I have a reason to root for Mexico in soccer, but what about all the immigrants from Europe and Asia that were rooting against the US? Why no hate towards them? What about the countless white people I saw at the game wearing a Mexico shirt? Is it just racism/resentment for the loss the reason for the hate? Or do they believe the papers when they read that all the Mexicans boo'd the anthem? I was there, and let me make it clear that the grand majority did not boo. Only the idiot cholos and drunks did. Why do some see it as an obligation to root for the US no matter if I learned how to love soccer from my Mexican roots? I pay taxes, I vote, I help my community, I would fight and die for this country. Doesn't that give me the right to root for who I want? please, if it seems like its just hate/resentment/racism and I'm letting it get to me, please let me know. what are your opinions on this? please no racist comments, they will be removed.

When you're on a gymnastics team, do you have to do every event?

I've been doing gymnastics for a year, and I've mostly focused on the floor, and taught myself a lot on the trampoline. I was thinking of joining the gymnastics team rather than just take lessons. So next year I think I could train myself to be level 8 or 9 on floor, however I think on the bars/beam/vault, I'm probably like level 2 lol. I'm 15 right now, and it's kinda embarrassing competing against 3 year olds. So I was wondering, do people on the gymnastics team compete on all apparatuses? What should I do.

What does this phrase mean to you?

To me it reads that the member must attend at LEAST ONE service per month. If you go longer than 3 months without attending service you are considered "not in good standing".

What do you think of my most recent list of names?

I like Vincent and Cole but with a different middle name, I like the name Pierce as a middle name though. I like Violet and Marina as a first name and Josephine, Katherine, and Victoria.

New Zealand or New Orleans?

I would do Australia or New Zealand and Australia sounds better because of the warmth and when you say penguins it just sounds to cold for me.

Why do people act like it's wrong for companies hire foreigners or outsource jobs?

To me, these companies are actually bringing people in 3rd world countries out of poverty. There's also no obligation for companies to only hire Americans.

How can I let this guy know that I don't want a boyfriend?

"I don't want a long term relationship." Guys can be dense. You need to be straight up and blunt with him.

What to do with small children who act up when guests come over?

How much notice does he have of the guests, and what is your level of involvement with him immediately prior to their arrival?

Middle name ideas for Ezra {boy}?

Well if you don't care about the origin I've always liked Xavier. not because of the X-Men movies, though you may want to consider that when considering the name. Johan could be good as well.

Questions about Form 3520 (Tax question: Gifts from a foreign person)?

Cash transactions above $10,000 are reported to prevent money laundering, This certainly looks like money laundering. I would have your father pay you directly and report it on gift taxes, he will have to anyway. Structuring it like he did won't prevent that. At a minimum, file Form 3520.

I was divorced in FL both my ex and myself relocated to indiana.The state of indiana began enforcing Florida?

support order which at that time was $11,000.dollars in arrears, Fl was collecting 20 addt'l a week towards arrears The arrears doulbled while his ability to pay due to securing a hi- income paying job also doubled however the local court (COUNTY VIGO) lowered the $20 addt'l to a mere $10 a week and then dismissed the case. To date the arrears are 18, 000. What court can i petition.? i thought at the very least Indiana court would've applied new income withholding law. increasing the amt to be paid weekly towards the arrears..i never dreamed they would decreases it. Why was my case dismissed, could it be because he was paying support obligation...the issue is the arrears...what state will enforce them now...can i go to another county in Indiana? Help!!!!.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Name sextuplets (6) using these names?

Scarlett Delilah, Shantel Antoinette, Carys Isadora, Esme Rebecca, Beatrix Aurora and Jackson Mathias are the names I like.

What does this quote mean?

There is no reason why the same man should like the same books at eighteen and forty-eight. ~Ezra Pound

Should I take the antidepressant?

i don't recommend such stuff ,, my grandma used an antidepressant for Alzheimer so it's not to be used except when it's serious

Song For Banquet Slide show?

I'm making a slide show for swim team, I want an up beat newish song but there will be 5 year olds there so nothing inappropriate (like curse words). I need a song that will keep people focused as well as enjoying this nice show. Please help! Thanks all who answered!

Has the movie industry died?

I think so, they don't make them like they used too. I miss movies that focused on story instead of 3D effects...

Should he die or still be alive?

Perfect compromise: Have him critically injured in a drug related accident, or permanently mentally disabled by crack use. That way, he stays alive for Clover to be miserable about, but he still gets to guilt his parents forever just by existing! Your goal IS sadism, right?

What type of person do you think about when you hear these names?

i think Nina would be nice wih Estella....all your names are very classic and remind me of really old movies except for Liam Andrew which is very today and i love the name Liam

Boy trouble, please help?

First i know you had a relationship and all but to me when I read this he sounded like he is kind of a player. Trust me you can find way better people than him. He sounds like hes very confused and you should probaly tell him its over and lets stay friends please!

How to tether a samsung focus?

his i have a Samsung focus i have been trying to tether it ans so far i have changed the setting to tethered call and i had to get the drivers off the internet. but i cant find my phone in the control panel in network sharing center, i don't know what to do i am also using the original cable.

What are some ways to focus on what you are doing and what can you do to stop daydreaming?

Try only thinking about paying attention. And like move your foot back and forth or tapp your hand so that way you don't start to doze off into a daydream(:

Star signs of the Pretty Little Liars?

thats like impossible, unless they do a scene where they are reading their zodiac signs. i know u DON'T want the actors signs, but that is the only thing u can find out. if u can prove me wrong, send me a message lol..But seriously i hope u find what u r looking for!!! :)

Pretty little liars music?

Ok so in this weeks episod of PLL the song that is playing when aria is looking for ezra what it called and who is it by? I would really like it if someone knew i fell in love with that song &this kissing scene so please if anyone knows you would be of big help thanks (:

How do you get the organization to add better players in mlb 2k11?

I told my organization who to focus on 3 years in a row and not 1 free agent has ever been signed its all re-signs. Also, when my contract was up it didnt give me the option of which other teams i had offers from and it automatically re-signed me. Anyone know why?

Have u seen the movie seven pounds?

the scene where ben is talking to ezra, the blind man over the phone about the pork gets me everytime

Dating a friend's ex - advice? Should I tell her this is happening?

You should deff tell her,, that's breaking girl code, completley.. and if she finds out that you knew , after she finds out and you didn't tell her, that could ruin your friendship with her, even tho you didn't physically do anything.

Name Seven Children Using My GP List?

Galileo Walter [Leo] Luca Emerson [Luke] Demetri Lux [Demmy] Hadley Ezra [Haddy] Anastasia Lilac [Sia] Roselle Am�lie [Elle] M�lodie Ciara [M�l] :)

What is the song in pretty little liars season 2 episode 2 when Ezra and Aria are kissing outside?

It's the scene when Aria goes to the empty classroom and then runs outside to kiss Ezra. Does anyone know the song i can't find it. thanks!

I keep making other peoples issues about me.?

Why is it your job to be everyone's cheerleader? Your fat friend obviously is using your compassion against you. Stop allowing her and everyone else to manipulate you and your feelings. She ate her way up to being fat, it's her responsibility to lose the weight, not yours. When she loses 25 pounds THEN compliment her. But YOU ARE NOT THE WORLD'S NURSEMAID! It's as simple as that.

I just found out my dad's a closet drinker, smoker, & goes to strip clubs regularly. how/should i tell my mom?

They had some trouble last year but seem to be very good now and don't argue anymore. He 'quit' smoking about 7 years ago, she knows he still smokes here and there but he actually smokes at least 2 packs a day, he drinks beers while driving constantly and drinks every minute he is away from the house, which is most of the day every day (she does not know about the drinking), and I found out that 4 years ago when he was traveling a lot for work that he drank and went to strip clubs like crazy.... He now is traveling again for work and the money is not coming in like it's supposed to be and my parents might lose their house... I don't know for sure that he is still going but if my mother knew about before I think it would be a deal breaker..... I don't know how or if I should tell my mom.. I would want to know if it were me and I feel a moral obligation to tell her.... What should I do?

Should i focus on the diagnosis or the symptoms?

Hi guys. Hope you are fine today. I was recently diagnosed with Bipolar 2 Disorder.I have a history of major depression but i wasn't diagnosed until after i had a hypomanic episode.Some people's experiences of hypomania can be quite positive.With some experiencing high functioning behaviour and increased productivity and creativity.However my hypomanic phase was a very negative experience.It was characterised by uncontrollable racing thoughts, insomnia,dysphoria(extreme agitation and irritability), full blown rages,excess energy, hypersexuality and excessive spending.I am now on Lithium and my pdoc is great.My question is should i focus on the label or the symptoms?

Please help, everything seems to worry me, and yet I don't have much emotion?

I get really nervous about going out, even when I'm meeting people I've known for years I tend to avoid it and just want it to be over. I'm getting less and less social. I've been staying at home quite a bit since uni ended for the summer. I was looking forward to the end of the exams because I could go out more and meet my friends but now I feel they don't even like me and I just don't want to see anyone. I play games at home and I'm feeling less emotion, normally when I play my video games I get really emotionally involved but now I feel nothing. I can't remember the last time I was genuinely happy or moved by something I read in the paper. When I do go out with my friends it's just out of obligation and I don't have a good time. Sometimes I don't even know why I exist, I feel like a burden to everyone and no one really knows me even when I try and open up and show my true character they're not interested. I'm becoming more introverted and I just feel like a robot.. Any advice?

How to get my husband to complete a task?

This is an easy one. Got to a few divorce attorneys and leave their brochures lying around the house. Have a friend call and leave a voice mail at your house saying he is an attorney and wanted to follow up on your meeting. If this doesn't work, then hire one of said attorneys!

Am I playing the Mistress part,again?

Your 25 you have your whole life ahead of you. Why would you want an already made family? His kids are going to cause your marriage stress. Blended families are not all what they are cracked up to be believe me I live in one. You have a clean slate. There are millions of men out there why pick a married one. I believe he is pulling the wool over your eyes. I think he is trying to make his marriage work while keeping you on a string. He would still be camming you at night if he was on the up and up. I know it is going to hurt but believe me it will hurt later on if you are going to get with him even worse. My suggestion is leave him. Find a single guy with no children. You are still so young and still have so much life don't waste it on some married guy with children.

How to get money, when your time is limited?

Well I last year I had a job then quit at the start of this year because I wanted to stay focused for yr 12, but i really missed the money there's so many things im doing without, so how can i get some money when i cant work during school time, like i can work on holidays but all the shops around here dont want anybody just for the holidays, so please help!! how can i get money

I need incentives to try to find someone to marry?

Up until the past year or so, I wanted to fall in love. Now I realize that it's better to just focus on trying to sustain a relationship despite the lack of these feelings. I need some incentives -- what are the reasons that marriage is better than being single (without love and attraction, of course).

New room, need "cool" things on walls. 10 pts?

I need ideas, websites. I am a strong christian if that helps, but I don't just need to focus on that either. I don't really want movie posters.. But ideas, idea, links... I will pick best answer, easy 10 pts

Why can't Palin and Bachmann just admit when they've made a mistake about our history!?

Bachmann said John Quincy Adams was one of our founding fathers. He was the SON of founding father John Adams. She said the founding fathers "worked tirelessly to abolish slavery." But Thomas Jefferson maintained 600 slaves. James Madison had 106. George Washington had 306. They didn't work to abolish slavery. The announcer tried to tell her this and give he a way out. But no. Ego I guess wouldn't allow it, so she tried to be right, just like Palin on the Paul Revere gaffe c0ns here STILL want to find a way to make her right on. Sorry, when he rode through the town, which is what she was focused on in the statement, he was NOT warning the British that THEY were coming, ok? Do these women just have a problem saying, "I stand corrected. I made a mistake"? And if so, why do you think that is? Your thoughts.

Advice Please...My son struggles with and HATES reading?

He probably hates it because he struggles with it.. Once he gets the hang of it, he will read much more. Try teaching him yourself which will make it less awkward and he will feel comfortable, say that after an period of time you can watch a DVD, have a treat or do what ever he likes to do as a reward to make him more enthusiastic.. Remember to always encourage him and says he's doing great x

Should the west provide aid to poor countries when?

The small amount of money we spend on foreign aid is a worthwhile investment. It should be increased.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

How far can a spouses "say" in what you do go?

Confusing question right? Let me explain. If you husband/wife told you that if you talk to an ex they would leave you, if your husband/wife told you they didn't want you to attend college because there were other people of the opposite sex there, If you wanted to get permanent birth control ie. a tubal/vasectomy but your spouse wanted more kids. Where do you think marital say/obligation ends? Are there things we should just be able to do?

Im over a fever but.... HELP! :O?

Okay, so right now im over a fever, i dont know, it wasnt really a high fever, just up to 39C . I dont have a fever today, no more, i guess cause i have been drinking so much water. But right now my eyes cant focus on anything, I think it might be because im dizzy ? I dont know, because yesterday night while i was having a fever, my eyes hurt, around my eyes hurt too, and i was having a BAD headache, right now i still do , but not as much, just a little. But what is wrong with my eyes ? and my mom wanted me to take some medicine which i dont want to , its not Tylenol or anything that i known off so i dont want to take it , and i only know its hard medicine, so it will make my fever goes away, but the problem is i dont have a fever anymore. should i take it ? :/ BTW the medicine was from a doctor in Vietnam , which i dont really trust them :O. (im visiting my family) and i dont even know what kind it is. just some coloured pills ? ?

What have you recently learned?

I learned there isn't such a thing as soul-mates. I believe that man was made for woman and viceversa. I believe that most people base their connectivity on superficial things (such as looks,money,popularity and so on) and they call it love but when they see that it wasn't love they get mad,confused,blameful,bitter, resentful & lost. Love is to want to do what is right and good. To uphold a strong desire to restore people including self, preserve people by saying and doing things that are productive and not destructive. Love is bold and doesn't settle for the lusts of this world but the true faith in goodness. Man & woman are different but yet so much similar. Man was made for certain duties and woman for hers. Mankind are complimentary to each other and are meant to work harmoaniously, as a person with their horse or the moon to the sun. People are full of blame competition and egocentricity. Love is humble and giving, needs not to boast because it knows (not thinks) what is good and right. Be noble, be good ,be who we were meant to be, as we were designed to be.

Research paper about Public education?

I have to write a 4 page research paper on public education/schooling. What are some of the main points that i focus on? what can i talk about?

Mine and my friend's favorite names? Which is better?

I like some from all of them I don't like all of them on any of the sets... I guess the first set for the girls and the second set for the boys although Aubrey is definitely a girls name.. just saying...

What are the binding obligations of a prospective tenant in the UK?

I have a house for rent. Recently some prospective tenants made an offer to rent it in writing, which was accepted. They have since changed their minds about the property (not moved in either), and even though they have not signed a tenancy agreement, do they still have any obligations to the landlord given the acceptance of their formal offer to rent in writing?

Pretty Little Liars Season 2 Episode 2?

When Aria is waiting to talk to Ezra at his Apt. and she leaves, what dies the note say that she left in his typewriter??

What would a president Rick Perry do to address the following issues?

Every one of these issues is just a symptom of a great disease - lack of confidence by Americans in American exceptionalism. Rick Perry can restore that and by doing so, the American people, not government, will solve these problems.

How to focus on one story ? :(?

i just have so many ideas ! everytime i start a story or a fanfic i never finish it :( because i get bored and start another one immediately !!! it's annoying :( i really wanna complete a book but it never happens to me !!!!

Should i focus on the diagnosis or the symptoms?

Hi guys. Hope you are fine today. I was recently diagnosed with Bipolar 2 Disorder.I have a history of major depression but i wasn't diagnosed until after i had a hypomanic episode.Some people's experiences of hypomania can be quite positive.With some experiencing high functioning behaviour and increased productivity and creativity.However my hypomanic phase was a very negative experience.It was characterised by uncontrollable racing thoughts, insomnia,dysphoria(extreme agitation and irritability), full blown rages,excess energy, hypersexuality and excessive spending.I am now on Lithium and my pdoc is great.My question is should i focus on the label or the symptoms?

Am i being a stupid teenager?

I want to move in with my dad who lives in southern California. I live in nor cal with my mom. The reasons for this include school, arts programs, opportunities, acting training, and my girlfriend. She lives there and I ean2 move and go to her school. My mom is utterly against the idea and says she would be an awful parent if she let me move for a girl. She says the chance we will end up together is tiny and that it's better that it's long distance because I can focus on school. I've been depressed for almost a year now since I only see her once a month. Am I being a stupid teenager? Or does my love for her make it ok?

The question I would ask Jose in the Anthony Trial...?

It all doesn't make any sense. If george was holding her dead body, explain what happened in the time frame between the incident and the woods!

Is there still enough time to read the 7 Harry Potter books in time for July 15th?

depends, if you are a reader in general, but at the same time it doesn't matter. Cause I could read those books soo fast cause it was hard for me to set them down. and i read them before the movies came out. so knowing the movie and reasding and expecting something might slow you down. or speed it up. just try to do it.

WHY he could not appreciate my love and care?

Practically we should not expect any appreciations for the love & care. coz both are part of the life. without love and care life wont be fruitful.

Can somebody send me a link to purchase a replacement LCD screen for my samsung focus, without the digitizer?

all i can find is the combo crap, and only my inner lcd screen is broken, not the digitizer. any help would be great!

Suggest names based on the below names:?

What names aren't on this list? What names don't go with this list? You have everything from Caleb and Ariel to Ezekiel and Silas. What else do you want?

Is this fraud? I can't tell. What do you think?

If it ends up involving a money transfer, money orders, bank transfer, etc it's a fraud. Anything where the funds you send cannot be safely gotten back in case the car isn't delivered!

Child support past due but obligation is $0?

My boyfriend and I live in California. He has a 14 year old daughter, and the mother is just now deciding to come after him for child support because he wouldn't give her $200. He buys his daughter everything she has and anything she ever wants. The mother is a drunk, so he knew the money wasn't going to go to feeding his daughter. He has no problem paying child support, we even filled out all the paperwork and returned it in a timely manner, but now he is getting papers saying he owes past child support. All of the divorce and child support papers say that he is obligated to pay $0 in child and spousal support. Why is he getting papers now saying he owes over $47,000?

What should I believe?

hmmm it sounds like maybe ur friend likes him and is lying to u to keep u from him. thats just a guess. tho good luck

Don't even have money for textbooks?

Don't lose hope. I know a lot of individuals who have the same situation like yours even worst! You're lucky enough to go to school. Just keep holding on. Why don't you approach your mentor/ teacher about it? but i suggest do it privately as they might not grant the help you need. Or approach a friend, borrow the book you need and have them photo copied? I'm sure you won't need every pages of it. If it doesn't work still, just manually copy it by borrowing it and just copy the important details? or listen carefully to your mentors as they give more important details than textbook does! Goodluck on your studies and god bless you! :)

Need help finding a love story, I only know part of the plot.?

Im not too familiar with christian romance authors but i know that if you google it,it comes up withauthors and books.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Name sextuplets (6) using these names?

Vanessa Carys, Delilah Evangeline, Scarlett Aurora, Roman Atticus, Jackson Elias, & Dominick Mason

What would you name your kids using my favorite names?

Violet Josephine, Rosalie Vivienne, Alice Ramona, Ezra Jackson, Tristan Alexander & Logan Barrnet

What are some ways to focus on what you are doing and what can you do to stop daydreaming?

Try only thinking about paying attention. And like move your foot back and forth or tapp your hand so that way you don't start to doze off into a daydream(:

What a good title for a tv show like this?

A good title for a tv show about a 17 year old girl who had a daughter at 16 and is living with her boyfriend any daughter. She has to focus on being a mom, school, and work. What a good title that's kinda good. Don't say something like "Teen mom"

Two weeks notice question?

So I have found a new job that wants me to start on July 11th. I gave two weeks to my employer on Friday, but since I am out of the office for three days this week they wanted me to stay a few extra days so that I'm in for ten days. I'm not sure I want to and know I have no obligation to. I want to be professionally courteous though since they have employed me for three years? What would you do if you were in my shoes? Thanks!

Which car is the best choice?

Its simple. Go to autotrader.com and look for mitsubishi. On max price put 10,000 dollars. I garentee u will find a deal.

Would you take this swimming pool survey ?

I'm not exactly sure what your question is, but I got the exact same results as you and it fits me to a T. How you get into a swimming pool reflects your lifestyle, I'm not sure, but it is true.

Honestly, do you believe more Christians serve God out of necessity or obligation than out of love for Him?

Most of the "Christians" I've met completely failed to live their faith, so I'm gonna say that they aren't in it out of love. My guess would be a combination of cultural bias, upbringing, and a vague notion that if they don't get some church every now and then, God will get annoyed.

Why isn't the use of an "autopen" machine considered forgery?

The person authorizes the use of the autopen, and the pen is not used to sign legally binding documents, merely correspondence and the like.

Can't focus, can't function. How do I get her out of my head?

you should write a book entitled "Gotta get over it" because you do, all she seemed to want is to have sex in your story, if you didn't for some "special reason" that would just make it super akward that you couldn't preform

How can I get visitation rights revoked ?

Her father moved to the East Coast when she was about 2 and has not tried to see her in 4 years. He refuses to pay child support (works under the table, won't file past years taxes which resulted in IRS audit, lied to employers about owing more than 6K in child support, child support enforcement finally revoked his drivers license because of unwillingness to pay). The father has a girlfriend that has a child who he says he is adopting (hopefully a smart judge will throw the request out). My childs father really only gets a job to support a girlfriend. He will not voluntarily pay child support, even though his last job paid $1100 a week. He states $336 a month is too much to pay in support, yet he lives in a state with very low cost of living and is adopting someone elses child??? My daughter has dental issues that come from her dads family (they have false teeth by 30) and I spend about $1500 a yr after insurance to fix her teeth...my other child has perfect teeth thankfully! Monthly her meds run $65, she sees a counselor weekly because of issues she has with her father leaving, daycare is 250 a month, and that isn't taking into consideration food, clothing, and basic necessities. Her father tried to tell me its my obligation to pay for her to travel alone to see him which I can't afford and am not going to allow him with her alone since he tried to kidnap her 4 years ago. I feel my daughter would be better off without him sporadically calling saying he will visit, telling her I'm mean, saying he is adopting a child, and threatening me. He can't afford to take me to court for not allowing her to visit alone but i'm thinking termination of visitation rights will actually help my daughter. This guy has mental issues and won't take meds for it, also was set to receive disability benefits from army and social security which would have paid child support but he didn't want to finish his appointments, and he's tried to kill his mother.

How wil the US government pay its Social Security and Medicare obligations?

Same way it pays its other obligations, like the military, subsidies to corporations, etc. Partly with what we take in in income and partly by borrowing.

How do i lose stomach fat?

I do cardio and weight training and then some core exercises. I am losing weight according to the scale but it seems to come off every where but my stomach. So how do i focus weight lose if that is possible?

As a paid personal care aide to my Grandmother, should I be expected to clean every moment she is asleep?

I don't think so. But tell her that if she wants you to tidy up the areas of the house outside of your grandma's room, you'll need more pay, because that changes the job description to housemaid, doesn't it? Since you have the time and could use the extra money, right? Just because you're a relative doesn't mean you can be taken advantage of; I stand strongly against that. :P

Do you like the names Colby & Sam for brothers?

I really like them! I like how the first names are kind of common but the middle ones are different. They sound great! My favorite boy names (for a sib set) are Nate Austin, Liam Tyler and Caleb Andrew.

I found a hair in my packaged deli meat, What should I do?

I recently purchased a variety pack of deli meat (turkey breast and Chicken breast) When I arrived home, I noticed there was a long black hair inside the packaged meat. The meat is from company named, ButterBall. I have not opened the package yet. What should I do? Does the company have any lawful obligation towards me? Basically, Do I have a lawsuit? lol Or Do need to return it to the market where it was purchased? I need some legal advice. I am in California if that helps.

What would be a good middle name for Ezra?

I really love the name Ezra for a boy! But it kind of doesn't match with the last name Hicks... But I would love to see some middle names anyway. Thank you :)

Is it impolite when guys only have eyes to your pretty friend and ignore you?

Unfortunately guys are pretty shallow. Go out with other friends or on your own some times. You'll meet guys who want you for who you truly are, whereas most the guys who meet your friend will only be attracted to her for her personality.

What song played during the last episode of pretty little liars when ezra and aria are in the parking lot?

The lyrics were something about "don't leave crying". Was at the end of the episode, would love to find it. Thanks :)

If corporations #1 obligation is to the shareholders why are they in the health care business?

It is the largest private industry in the U.S. and the bottom line is to benefit the stock holders and corporate heads, not provide services to the subscribers. A claim denied is profit in the pocket of the stock holders and corporate heads.

DUI and the reserves?

I just joined the reserves after completing my obligation of active duty. I am under no obligation in the reserves and can drop back to the IRR if I choose to. Long story short, went out to celebrate (like an idiot) joining the unit and got a DUI. The chain of command has not been notified but if I withdraw from the reserves without telling the chain of command what happened would it have a serious effect on me after I drop to the IRR if they were to find out?

Is anyone here a Quaker or have experience with Quakers?

I know them through my breakfast oatmeal. There is a very nice picture of a man on the box, so I would say they encourage the arts. They also feed the hungry.

I'm losing feelings for my girlfriend?

Okay here's the story, i been with my girlfriend for about 1 year and 7 months. I love her very much, but currently losing feelings for her. Were committed and all, I'm 18 and she's turning 17 this November. I'm starting college on august 29. I have a passion for film, were in summer right now and I'm planning on making movies. The thing is, i just really want to focus on my career which is film. I'm very mature, I'm not leaving her for another girl. This is very confusing, i would still love to be friends with her. I'm just afraid her feelings will be deeply hurt. Give me some advice please, Thank You.

Help with ex boyfriend!!?

I met his at the rollordrome and I fell for him. We made out and all that crap. He said he loved me until we stopped texting. For no reason. Now I may see him this Friday or not then I'll see him in the fall in school and was wondering what I should say to him. He's a good kisser has good looks and I really do like him. Now only answer how you would handle this situation if it was you. Not no good up to him say hi and smile crap please. Maybe flirting or trying to make him jealous and dirty dancing to the loud music? Btw I'm 12 and am mature. So don't say I'm too young and focus on your studies. I do so please answer my question. If your nice enough I'll give you 10 points

Monday, July 11, 2011

I met the girl of my dreams, what do I do now?

She has a 6 year old boy who is autistic and her parents don't agree with her religious beliefs. Her personality is almost exactly like mine and I feel like I have found my "soul mate". I admit, I am smitten, and she is the same, but I am skeptical that our meeting is a coincidence. I have considered the pros and cons of dating a girl with an autistic child and have developed a "love conquers all" attitude. I have accepted the fact that her child comes first and I encourage that. However, she feels guilty that she can't spend much time with me due to her job/school/child. We have EVERYTHING in common, but she thinks we should stop dating because she has too many obligations. I completely respect her maturity on that issue, but feel that meeting someone exactly like myself is not by chance. When we do hang out, everything is perfect. What should I do?

I need some help with my conics/parabola math questions! Can ANYONE help!!?

I'm sure people would like to help you, but they probably don't want to do your homework for you. (In other words, give TRY first and provide what you THINK are answers.)

Should I change my name?

You don't have to legally change your name. Just go by a nickname like Allie. You can write it that way too. Then it's just a matter of common usage.

Should I go to the beach with my Hypocrite Sister-in-law?

all that you said at the end of the last paragraph, say it to your boyfriend. better yet, confront her about it. tell her you know and think that thats horrible because you havent been anything but nice. if nothing comes of it, dont help them out. simple as that. you seem like a very mature and sincere person, dont expect everyone to be like you and you shouldnt stoop down to their level either, but putting your foot down should let her know you have limits too.

Help in my player mode MLB 2k11?

I told my organization who to focus on 3 years in a row and not 1 free agent has ever been signed its all re-signs. Also, when my contract was up it didnt give me the option of which other teams i had offers from and it automatically re-signed me. Anyone know why?

Why does the mainstream media target tweens and teenagers so heavily through music and tv?

Why does the mainstream media dedicate so much focus and time towards marketing to tweens and teenagers? Is it cause this is the easiest age demographic to sell to?

Similarities with Latin American and PInoy soap operas?

You forgot the talking fishes and the turtles. What ever the theme of their soap opera the story ends up similar to the previous episode. Thats why I don't watch soap operas, it's so obvious that they just want to make money by getting the attention of the kids, yet the quality of how it was made is very poor and the story is always whimsical.

Help me pick Aiden's siblings names!?

I like Jack and Samuel, I wouldn't use Colby with Jack kids would tease that he was a cheese. So Jack Bennett, and Samuel Asher, for a girl Lilah Elise is feminine and elegant, for a small child or a grown woman.. Hope this helped.

Are my friend and I just growing apart?

I don't think it's you. She's just finally growing up. She wants to get her life started. Don't take offense.

Can you speak to your GP about being suicidal ?

yes, a gp would commit you to hospital, he/she has to. there is a 24 hour sucide prevention line you can call annousmanlly. please please don't do it. for whatever is making you think this. your a good person & i bet you have alot to offer to others. i hope this stops very very soon.

What phone should I get Blackberry bold 9780 or Samsung focus?

Help me decide I'm going to get my phone as a grad gift and I don't know which one too get. I like to send emails and message my friends a lot and play games as well. I'm stuck.

Name quadruplets (4) using theses names?

Marcus Alexander, Henry Thomas, Vivienne Annabel, Emmeline Annabel. I also like Emmeline spelled Emilyn:)

He rescued me from being raped. How do I thank him?

I think he is in love with you. You should straight out tell him how chivalrous he was and how he saved a maiden in distress. :)

Should I register as a sole trader?

You are trading for profit outwith PAYE. You must register for Self Assesment and submit tax returns. The HMRC website is user friendly or write in with full information and ask to be set up.

Listen to my mp3-player during soccer practice(alone)?

Hi, I just wonder if it is wise to listen to musc when I practice alone with the wall, or should I be totally focused then too?

What does it mean when a guy says "not right now" in regards to a relationship?

A couple years ago, a guy I worked with was broken up from his gf and my relationship was on the rocks. We ended up hooking up a couple times and were really good friends. He wanted me to leave my bf and even offered me a place to stay for a little while, if I did in fact leave. I broke things off bc I felt horrible about cheating(even though I was being cheated on as well and told me he was still in love with his ex!!).I no longer work at that job and decided it was best that we not talk so that we could both work on our relationships. The guy I was hooking up with ended up getting back together with his ex. I heard recently that he is single again as am I. I sent him a FB friend request and asked if we could be friends again and his response was that he needed to focus on himself right now and it was nothing personal, but he felt it was best for now that things remain how they have been. I don't want to be that girl that just doesn't get the picture, but does this mean he needs some time to himself like he said? Or is there never really going to be another chance for him and I?

Are ADD meds really that bad for you?

I think I have ADD but my parents wont get me meds because it's bad for you. I took one of my friend's pills one time and I could focus way more and it felt like my head was clear and I had no anxiety. I also believe I have social anxiety and because of that I always tend to think too much, so maby that is why I can't seem to listen or concentrate. Are social anxiety meds just as bad for you as ADD meds? My parents say it's all bad for you but my outlook on the situation is everybody is going to die sooner or later so why should I live my life in misery (without pills) just so I can have a prolonged life of misery?

I am a US citizen married to a Filipino citizen. We were married in the Philippines. Can we divorce?

We were married only in the Philippines. We haven't done any immigration paperwork. If I want to end the marriage, what are my obligations as a US citizen?

What would you name 7 kids using these names?

Athena Brynn, Aphrodite Grace, Evangeline Rose, Ashlyn Olivia, Caden Alexander, Landon James, Rylan Thomas.

How many name changes in what amount of time before the kid is messed up for life?

My kids name was his name from the moment I turned over the birth certificate and record paper work. Yes they can have nick names, but he has a name, so don't confuse the poor kid. Stick to his name and have a nickname.

What would you name six kids using these names?

Good thing the mother signs the birth certificate. I think you need to revisit some of these names. a child's name is his parents first gift to them so make it a good one and not one where he or she gets the crap pounded out of them on the school yard or teased for the rest of their lives.

Sunday, July 10, 2011

Do you feel desperate about your life?

No, I'm very happy. I care nothing for money, materialism or the worship of celebrity. I've never bought into any of it. I own a home and a battered 1997 car. I work as a senior prison officer. I'm very good at it. I don't do it for money and the only reason I own my own home is because it was cheaper than renting at the time. You need to make changes to be content.

What are my legal obligations here?

I received a letter, from my previous employers (which I quit about 3 months ago), stating that they had accidentally made payments into my bank account, which was an obvious mistake. They require that I return that money to them in their bank account. Do I have to, or is it their mistake, which they will just need to accept?

In the Pretty Little Liars book series, didn't Aria and Ezra have sex? Then he got arrested the next day?

My friend is still arguing with me over this stuff... I'm almost possitive they did! When the police nocked on his apartment door, Aria noticed her bra on the fold out bed on the couch...

I dont do homework, year 10?

I just dont do homework, i am going to start getting in the habit of it now and focusing more. Because of not doing a lot of homework, will i fail year 11 and 12? or if i start doing homework soon, could i have a chance of getting high grades for year 11 and 12?

Do you like these baby names?

My favorite is Cypress. Do you have a middle name picked out? Think of how the first and last name sound togther. Then have a middle name that works with the both. They are all pretty(:

I'm Black - How can I get my little brother to stop listening to rap music?

What I would do is if he acts like your car is his, hide the keys or don't let him drive it. I'm also 16 and all my friends listen to the same stuff, As for hip hop or rap music I don't know any artist to recommend, as I listen to rock, metal, grunge, etc.so its kind of annoying, I don't know if its the music persay, cause most of my friends don't act like that. I think it could be more of what he watches on TV. I've seen some of the trash on tv these days, and its pretty bad. My sister acted similar except less "gangster," she hasn't changed so it could be personality type or a phase. If your bigger than him you could use your size to intimidate him. Im not saying to kick his ***, but maybe kind of scare him into being more pleasant, at least at home. If not then talk to him, more than likely he'll just say "this is stupid" or "whatever" but its worth a shot. I hope I helped

I never finish anything?

Well, you were able to type this long boring question that no one cares about. I'm just sayin, right?

Music sountrack from Pretty Little Liars?

What were the songs played in today's episode? I'm mostly interested in the kissing scene with Aria and Ezra outside of the school though...

How far can a spouses "say" in what you do go?

Confusing question right? Let me explain. If you husband/wife told you that if you talk to an ex they would leave you, if your husband/wife told you they didn't want you to attend college because there were other people of the opposite sex there, If you wanted to get permanent birth control ie. a tubal/vasectomy but your spouse wanted more kids. Where do you think marital say/obligation ends? Are there things we should just be able to do?

"I think my roommate is an energy vampire" OR "I'm not antisocial; I'm anti-you!"?

II believe he is called the 'emotional vampire'. I've encountered some of them already, he may not be aware he is one, or maybe he does. But, I'm positively sure this will help you out.. a href="http://theadventurouswriter.com/spirituality/emotional-vampires-ways-protect-yourself-from-negativity/" rel="nofollow"http://theadventurouswriter.com/spiritua…/a

Friend rescued me from being raped. How do I thank him?

He sounds like a great guy, not only for doing what any guy should have done by stopping what was about to happen. but also for taking sole responsibility for what could have happened to you. He either sees you as a secret love or as a younger sister, and feels a great deal of protection over you. He blames himself and there really isn't anything you can do to ease that besides reassure him as much as you can. Theres no need to go out of your way by dating him or making up feelings for him unless you actually have them. If he is as good of a guy as you make him out to be, he won't expect anything in return aside from your assurance that you don't blame him. But I think is bothering him is the thought that "What if I HAD NOT got there in time..what If I would have been 5 minutes later" and this is what is bothering him. try telling him something along the lines of "What could have happened and what did happen are two different things, you were there when I needed you to be there" He needs to understand that he made it in time to help you and what may have happened, did not happen. He was on time and you were not raped.

Feeling extremely overwhelmed while in reality I have few obligations. ?

Is this a common feeling for any of you? Could it be the constant worrie of planing my future? Is it associated with the gloomy feeling of life quickly slipping past with little to show in accomplishment? Is it the possible actions that could be taken that lay dormant and allow me to continually reject the idea of mending a broken friendship or patching up that lost relationship that I continuely long to do but am too stubborn to endeavor? Maybe it's the blame I place on myslef that need be placed on the shoulders of others, maybe all of these previous problems were not created by me but by them. Maybe, I just answered my own question. If so, how do I lift this weight that seems to be breaking my neck on a daily basis when it has become too heavy to ignore?

Sidney Crosby works out twice a day in the summer?

no one knows his training sched besides himself and his trainers. good luck trying to copy his exercises. hes SIDNEY CROSBY AKA HOCKEY GOD

Can you please rate these names?

I like Keegan Chance the most. Then Drew Troy. Then Corbin Myles. Those would be my top three. Good luck and congratulations!

Where is Ezra going on PLL?!?

I just watched tonights episode of pretty little liars and Ezra is leaving??? Where's he going, will he still be on the show, and are him and Aria still going to be dating?? Thanks and the most informative answer will get 10 points!

Am i bipolar. and if i dont get treated will things get worse?

You may be Bi-polar or ADHD. Or both. Don't worry about the testing. Billions of people have it. It also may be just hormones if you're a teen. Just accept it.

Is it normal for a teenage girl to not really be interested in love?

Ultimately its your decision what you want to do with your love life. But does it make sense to deprive yourself of something that I'm sure you long for?

What name is best for Maeve's brother?

Maeve & Oscar - I just think these two would work fabulously for brother & sister. They have the same sort of old fashioned but sweet feel to me.

Books & Authors: Is your protagonist anything like a hero/heroine? + BQ?

I don't believe in heroes, so my protagonist is a normal human being. He is good, but he sometimes is selfish and acts accordingly-he has plenty of flaws as any other person. I don't see the appeal of writing a character that's entirely good in the perfect sense of the word. May be in young adult novels in which there's supposed to be a character that represents the charming prince and a girl who is supposed to be a damsel in distress the idea of "heroes" can be applied, but it's pointless if you want to write a good novel.

Will the US start selling its state assets like Greece is doing now to pay its debts?

In the news, Greece is selling its highways and airport to bankers in order to pay its debt obligations as well as receiving another bailout. Are we next? When we can't pay our debtors to China, will we be selling Six Flags or Dollywood to China? How about the Atlanta or La Angelos airport?

Which boy and girl names do you like the most?

I was reading some of the answers and I saw Jade and no middle name with it what about Jade Renae thats pretty.

Am I the only person who'd just rather stay single?

I am 25 years old and I'd just rather stay single. I have no children, no drama, no arguments, no obligations, no worries, and I love my privacy. If a relationship happens then it just happens.

Is this normal......or are we just growing apart?

Yeah shes getting older n she wants to do somthing wit her life. she did the party thing now shes focusin on making that money

What would you name sextuplet boys using these names?

Tristan William , Cael Archibald, Elliot Duncan, Kiefer Jude, Julian Nigel, Ezra Duncan, Jasper Basil- I suppose I would choose these..

How serious could our debt crisis be if GOP’rs will not even discuss revenue?

Because they realize that when you give the government more revenue, they spend even more. Why don't democrats understand that one? Must be their 'superior *cough* intelligence'.

Do you like these baby names?

Oh wow. My favorites would be at least half that list! Those are very beautiful names =] To choose, I would take a quiet afternoon to sit and look up the meaning of each of those names! Sometimes that makes the decision a little easier~

Why would a husband do this?

I just dont understand why he did this or what he was thinking??? For mothers day my husband gave me a nice card but no gift (i didnt ask for nor expect anything but was suprised and pleased with the card. i love cards. im only telling you that to explain the rest of the story)... on memorial day he said..."i know i didnt get you a gift and have no right asking but Id like that as seen on tv tool for fathers day "... I said ok.... But when I tried to give it to him, he refused stating, "you cant give gifts out of obligation, you cant buy love".... I dont understand, he asked me to buy it for him. Maybe this was a set up just to hurt me? If it was it worked. What do you think?

Why doesn't McCourt just sell the team to someone who can afford it?

pay off his debts from the sale and get the heck out of LA. I'm sorry but he should be able to meet his obligations TV deal or not. How much of a douchebag does one have to be to get to the point where you are the biggest douchebag in LA?

Do you feel a strange sense of obligation, even if it's not necessary or even harmful,?

No! It infuriates my MIL, who insists that we are there when the gate opens and stay for the fireworks as the gates close. They have season passes, but my kids and I do not. I take them once a year, and my in laws insist that I get my money's worth. I don't see the point in being at Cedar Point at all if we're not having fun.

Is there an obligations when selling call options after I bought them?

If I buy a bunch of call options, then decide to sell them a month later, where does the obligation lie if yhe buyer decides to exercise the option? Does it lie with me or the seller from which I originally bought the calls from?

Do me and him have a chance and if not did we ever?

Wow so you sound SO much like me:) the guy i was talking about in my question was practically my first BF. But hmm... sooo you have obviously held onto this relationship, serious or not, for quite sometime! I am guessing since you said 3rd grade, you are now older than that? By a lot.. haha. So yea, and you guys have grown on each other. When he talks about his ex constantly, that could be a way of telling you that he still likes you and hes trying to make you jealous or he may want you to say something that will spark the jealously factor. If you were to show him any negative burst about him and his ex, he will get that you are a little jealous and take it as a yes...that you still have feelings for him. This may be his test to see if you still like him! But since you are so nice and do not want to get in the way, (which i totally see where you are coming from!) then you just need to confront him and not play his little game. You could also explain that since his ex has dumped him so many times that he needs to forget her or something, try to find a way to connect back with him and let him catch you hint or your flow, steer the convo in the right way:) And honestly even tho it is your 1st relationship, i would take things pretty seriously too considering that you guys have had a long history together:) I think you guys still have a chance:) Good luck, and thank you sooo much for your answer to my question:) you really helped me:)

My boyfriend doesn't have any emotion, what's wrong?

DON'T GO!!! He needs you even if he won't say it. Chances are something is bothering him and he might not even know what is bothering him. Try talking to him and helping him but DON'T GO!!!! Tell him that you are there to support him if he ever needs to talk.